Gifts of Sobriety: When the Promises of Recovery Come True
Author: Barbara S Col
Why try? we sometimes ask ourselves when faced with the uncertainties and hard work of recovery. But the answers are all around us, in the rich and spirited lives of those who have made the journey before us, each one a member of the joyful possibilities that await. These possibilities come alive in Gifts of Sobriety, a book that gives immediate meaning to the Big Book's promise: "We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness." In this book, those who have freed themselves of alcohol or drug addiction share the gifts that sobriety has given them. Their stories are, in turn, a gift-for those who have made the journey and for those who, just embarking, seek gladdening news of the good life to come.
Barbara S. Cole, for many years a drug and alcohol professional with the Betty Ford Center, now works as a psychotherapist in private practice. She lives in Studio City, California.
Table of Contents:
Acknowledgments | ix | |
Introduction: The Promises of Sobriety | 1 | |
The Other Side of the Struggle | ||
Millions Have Gone Ahead | ||
Uncovering the Real Self | ||
The Promises | ||
1. | We Are Going to Know a New Freedom and a New Happiness | 9 |
Freedom Is a Birthright | ||
Freedom and Powerlessness | ||
Who's in Charge? | ||
Cunning, Baffling, and Powerful | ||
Defining Freedom | ||
A Connection with Others | ||
Freedom from Dishonesty | ||
New Awareness | ||
Happiness Redefined | ||
2. | We Will Not Regret the Past nor Wish to Shut the Door on It | 29 |
Seeing the Past Clearly | ||
Embracing the Gray Area | ||
The Higher Power Connection | ||
The Miracle of Accountability | ||
Making Amends | ||
Living in the Present | ||
Forgiving Ourselves and Others | ||
3. | We Will Comprehend the World Serenity and We Will Know Peace | 45 |
Genuine Serenity Is Possible | ||
The Paradox of Intellect | ||
The Serenity Quest | ||
Letting Go of Control | ||
The Serenity Prayer | ||
4. | No Matter How Far Down the Scale We Have Gone, We Will See How Our Experience Can Benefit Others | 59 |
The Punishment of Isolation | ||
The Gift of Social Connection | ||
The Benefits of Fellowship | ||
Bringing Light to Dark Subjects | ||
5. | That Feeling of Uselessness and Self-Pity Will Disappear | 71 |
A Window of Truth | ||
A Gradual Turn for the Better | ||
Born Whole and Complete | ||
A Change in Priorities | ||
Misery Becomes Optional | ||
6. | We Will Lose Interest in Selfish Things and Gain Interest in Our Fellows | 85 |
Global and Radical Changes | ||
No Longer Self-Centered | ||
Stop Feeding the Disease | ||
Relationships Increase in Value | ||
7. | Self-Seeking Will Slip Away | 95 |
A True Sense of Relaxation | ||
A Moment of Clarity | ||
My Way or the Highway | ||
The Privilege of Serving Others | ||
8. | Our Whole Attitude and Outlook upon Life Will Change | 103 |
The Problem with Willpower | ||
Overcoming Shame and Guilt | ||
Turning Around the Craziness | ||
A Change in Perception | ||
9. | Fear of People and of Economic Insecurity Will Leave Us | 115 |
The Power of Making Amends | ||
The Clutch of Guilt and Shame | ||
Blessings in Unlikely Circumstances | ||
When Less Is More | ||
10. | We Will Intuitively Know How to Handle Situations Which Used to Baffle Us | 127 |
Being Beyond a Ninety-Day Wonder | ||
Growth and Change | ||
Ego Management | ||
11. | We Will Suddenly Realize That God Is Doing for Us What We Could Not Do for Ourselves | 137 |
Spiritual Baby Steps | ||
When Losing Is the Perfect Strategy | ||
Couldn't Live Well, Couldn't Die Well | ||
12. | These Promises Will Always Materialize If We Work for Them | 147 |
Appendix | The Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous | 149 |
About the Author | 151 |
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